|“Ocean in the view. Oh, the joy!”
William Clark of the Lewis and Clark Expedition
Crossing the Continental Divide
Nearly two weeks ago, I left Chicago behind. I had lived there for 27 years so this was no small move. The sun, the ocean, and the hills of California called me as they’ve been calling me for years. I finally packed up my car and started the journey west.
On my journey, I spent time with family and friends and slowly worked my way west. Last week, I arrived at my destination—Southern California. The journey was an adventure to remember for a lifetime—the chance to see America in a new way—but one moment from my journey stands out: the Continental Divide at Independence Pass.
In the US, the continental divide is a geologic feature—a line down the middle of the rockies—where all water on one side of the line flows into the Atlantic Ocean and on the other side it flows into the Pacific Ocean.
Metaphorically, in our lives, a continental divide is the moment where, when you cross it, everything goes in a new direction.
We’ve all had these moments—the day you sign the lease on your first apartment, when you cross the threshold of your first job and start making your own money, getting on a knee and asking your love to marry you, saying yes to said question, quitting the job that is sucking your soul, getting on that plane to travel internationally for the first time, starting your own company, signing your name for 30 minutes to own your first home, and the list goes on and on. These are the moments where we have understandable fear but we move ahead anyway. We don’t know exactly what is on the other side but we move forward boldly.
As I approached the continental divide this past week, I noticed that some of its features also seem to coincide with this metaphorical divide....click here! to keep reading
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