Your Crucible = Your Best Life

Posted Thursday, July 23, 2015

"I thought life would be more than this."

My friend was being real. Life slowly went into the shitter and every path out of it seems unlikely to succeed plus trying to get out actually seems to be more painful than where he is right now. So he stays right there--for years. Don't get me wrong. Life from the outside looks pretty hunky dory. Good job. Kids. Wife. Home in the burbs. The american dream. He knows the truth though. And so do you.

You get it. You've been there. I've been there. We've all been there. Sometimes you wake up to one or a combination of these thoughts: 

"What is the purpose of this life? Why am I doing this job? Do I love my spouse? Does she love me? My children hate me. Do I matter? Do I have what it takes? Do they like me? Why don't I have kids yet? Will I ever find peace? Why did he leave me? Who am I? "

These aren't just passing thoughts. They consume us. They take over our brains and impact our bodies. My friend reports stress, illness, and basically daily dread.

Here's the thing though, this is the moment of your life.

This is the crucible. This is where you can become the person you want to become. This is the wake up call for your one and only life. It is here that life can finally turn a corner because now your SOUL has your attention.


It's hard. It seems impossible. You will survive this. You are done with survival. Survival is the old way. Now it's time for something better. Somewhere here there is the most courageous version of you. The world needs that version of you. Really!
So conjure up your most brave self. Stand up tall. Ask your soul one question: "Assuming I chose this moment, what would I choose right now?  

Do it. Choose your life.

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